I need some advice.
Our Aupair pretty much ignores my 6 year old daughter. She takes care of my 7 month old son but hardly interacts with my daughter. Her interaction is limited to telling her what to do [like brush her teeth] and what she should not be doing [no talking since the baby is sleeping].
When my son is asleep, the aupair goes into her room and works on her computer. Meanwhile, my daughter [who is fairly independent ] plays on her own in her own room.
I have addressed this issue with the AuPair and she says my daughter doesn’t listen to her. I have tried involving her in my daughter’s activities such as art and craft etc. but she takes little or no interest.
Our Aupair has been with us for almost 5 months now. How should I make her interact with my daughter?